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Post by feimaumania on Apr 21, 2004 17:04:54 GMT 8
PETUA MEMUPUK SAYANG BERPANJANGAN
SESAMA KELUARGA
· Hari jadi amat bermakna, elok diraikan bersama keluarga. Jadikan ia kegiatan keluarga atau boleh juga jemput saudara mara dan kawan2 utk raikan sekali
· Pastikan anda memberi pendidikan secukupnya kpd keluarga, ilmu dunia dan akhirat
· Didik anak mengikut zamannya, bkn zaman anda
· Selalu berkomunikasi dan berinteraksi dgn anak scr positif
· Amalkan cara hidup sihat, makan dan beriadah bersama scr tetap
· Amalkan nilai agama dan buat bersama2 keluarga spt sembahyang berjemaah
· Terima kekuatan dan kelemahan keluarga seadanya serta saling menghormati da mempercayai
· Berkongsi masalah bersama keluarga, jdkan keluarga sbg sumber mendapatkan nasihat
· Tunjukkan minat pd kegiatan keluarga dan lakukan bersama2
· Latih yg muda mencium tangan yg tua setiap kali berjumpa atau hendak keluar rumah. Jgn lupa beri salam
· Saling bertanya khabar. Sebaik pulang dr tempat kerja anda tanyalah khabar anak2.
· Ada yg kata, memasak sendiri sudah tdk praktikal lg bg ibu yg berkerjaya zaman ini krn harus meminta bantuan pembantu rumah. Jika tdk mampu masak setiap hari, pastikan seminggu sekali air tangan ibu dapat dirasai keluarga. Cari waktu utk sama2 memasak dgn anak2.
· Menginaplah di dlm rumah yg selamat, sempurna dan bersih. Rumah dan persekitaran yg kotor akan mengganggu perkembangan mental seluruh isi keluarga
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Post by feimaumania on Apr 21, 2004 17:05:12 GMT 8
ANTARA SUAMI ISTERI
· Jgn lupa tarikh hari jadi dan tarikh ulang tahun perkahwinan! Begitu juga tarikh istimewa anak2 utk dirai bersama
· Harus sentiasa berlemah lembut, jgn meninggikan suara sewaktu bersembang
· Pandai memujuk rayu dan bergurau senda. Tanpa gurau senda rumahtangga tdk bermaya dan hilang keceriaan
· Jika menegur biar cara berhemah supaya tdk menyakitkan hati. Jgn terus2 menyalahkan pasangan
· Jika berlaku pertelingkahan atau rasa tdk puas hati, segeralah diselesaikan, jgn biar melarat
· Bersegera meminta maaf dan berjanji tdk mengulangi
· Senyumlah selalu kpd pasangan
· Berhiaslah utk pasangan dan berwangi- wangian. Ini bukan tanggungjawab isteri shj ttp juga suami
· Jgn selalu meminta2, terimalah pasangan seadanya
· Ucapkan rasa kasih sayang setiap hari walau sudah bercucu seklaipun
· Sentuhan dan belaian mengeratkan hubungan. Berpimpin tangan ketika berjalan walau sudah berpuluh2 tahun berumahtangga
· Amalkan menidurkan anak lebih awal drp masa anda suami isteri masuk tidur. Pastikan suami isteri masuk tidur bersama2 bkn asing2
· Picit- memicit menenangkan fikiran, apatah lg anda dan pasangan masing2 berkerjaya. Bergilir2 saling memicit
· Amalkan mandi bersama
· Jgn cerita hal peribadi pasangan kpd org lain. Ini akan membuatkan dia merasa dikhianati, akhirnya hilang kepercayaan kpd anda
· Layan sendiri pasangan anda setiap kali dia sakit, suapkan ubat dan bawakan makanan kpdnya. Dia lebih rasa dihargai dan dikasihi
· Hormati dan layan mesra ibubapanya
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Post by feimaumania on Apr 21, 2004 17:05:42 GMT 8
ANTARA KAWAN
· Kawan ialah seseorg yg mengajak kita membuat kebaikan. Jika dia mengajak ke arah kejahatan, itu bkn kwn ttp perosak diri
· Jaga hati kwn sebagaimana kita mahu dia menjaga hati kita
· Ingat tarikh hari jadi, ucapkan selamat secara lisan atau melalui kad dan jika mampu berikan cendera hati kpdnya
· Jika kwn belanja kita mkn, esok lusa kita pula belanja dia
· Jgn bercerita hal kwn kita kpd org lain terutama masalah peribadi dan rahsianya
· Jika dia bercerita masalah, jdlah pendengar yg baik dan jgn menyalahkannya pula
· Jgn meremehkan masalah kawan, walau nampak remeh ttp sebenarnya berat mata memandang, berat lg bahu memikul
· Jgn jadikan keadaan fizikal kawan kita sbg bahan lawak
· Nasihati kwn dgn berhemah bukan memaksanya
· Jika anda tdk berkebolehan menyelesaikan masalahnya, minta dia rujuk dgn org lain, jgn pula and memandai2
· Hormati keluarga kwn kita
· Jika meminjam wang, pastikan tdk lupa membayarnya. Jgn krn kwn anda culas membayar hutang
· Jgn ambil kesempatan hanya krn dia kwn
· Ikhlaslah dlm persahabatan, jgn berkwn semata2 krn dia terkenal, kaya atau pandai
· Kanl pasti kelebihan dan kekurangan kwn supaya kita lebih memahaminya
· Jgn lupa ucap terima kasih kpd kawan yg byk membantu.
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Post by StRiDeR on Apr 21, 2004 17:26:44 GMT 8
tak tp berkata2..smmgnye die ni murai gak la..time tdo pun nak borak gak...tak puas kot hehehe  ...mungkin ader byk masalah bermain di fikiran dia kot  ... |
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Post by kAsuTbAtA on Apr 21, 2004 18:15:06 GMT 8
harap2 segala petus2 tu di amalkan selalu..jgn duk post jek..amal tidak plak
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Post by toys on Apr 21, 2004 18:17:50 GMT 8
harap2 segala petus2 tu di amalkan selalu..jgn duk post jek..amal tidak plak tul tu..kasut.. eh ko ingat tak bintang(horoskop) kwn ko....mesti ingat kan nama pun kwn... |
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Post by StRiDeR on Apr 22, 2004 14:58:59 GMT 8
Tips utk cinta terpendam  1. Buat mcm biasa seolah-olah takde pape perasaan kt si dia. 2. Andaikan yg si dia masih belum berpunya so taklah kamu sakit hati sgt. 3. Mendekati sesape yg rapat dn si dia. Nk cungkil rahsia ler tue! 4. Jgn sebut sgt nama si dia dpn org lain. Takut org lain tahu plak. Berckp mengenai si dia bila perlu shj. 5. Cuba kontrol gerak-geri ketika berkomunikasi dgn si dia spy tak nmpak yg kamu sebenarnya nervous. 6. Agar kehadiran kamu disedari, kamu harus sentiasa melakukan aktiviti yg seolah-olah bertembung dgnnya krn org kata dr mata trn ke hati. Kalau dh selalu bertemu pasti sedikit sebyk dia akan sedar akn kehadiran kamu.
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Post by StRiDeR on Apr 26, 2004 2:22:13 GMT 8
A question for you to ponder over... ... .
u guys should try this one... ..cant believe that I actually manage to give
the best answer!
This was an important question asked during an interview session by a
certain company. The management has actually decided to employ the person
who answered this question most appropriately.
There was of course no right or wrong in the answer to this question but it
all depends on how each individual answered it.
Read the question below & think of how you would answer it before you
scroll down to see the 'best' answer given by this particular person, who of
course got employed.
On a dark & stormy night where rain was pouring heavily, wind was blowing
wildly, lightening striking & thunder was sounding oudly... ... ... .
It was 2am late in the night. You were driving a 2-seater car by yourself
on a very lonely stretch of the countryside with this terrible storm when
you came to a sheltered bus stop. There were 3 people in the bus stop... ...
1 was a doctor who saved your life previously when you had a heart attacked.
Another was an extremely sick old man who seemed like on the verge of death
while the 3rd is the dream of your life, someone whom you always wanted to
get to know for a long time!
The stormy weather was getting worse & the 3 people in the sheltered bus
stop were getting wet from the heavy rain. Lightening continued to strike &
thunder roared... ... .
The question is : What would you do in a situation like this?
Remember... ..you have only a 2-seater car & will not be able to ferry all
the 3 people in your car to a more sheltered place. So, what will you do?
Ponder over this situation & think of an answer before you scroll down for
the supposedly 'best' answer!
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These are some standard answers given by some of the interviewees :
a.. "I will drive the sick old man to the nearest hospital since he's dying
soon... .."
b.. "Since the doctor saved my life before, I'll drive him... ... ... "
c.. "Morally, I'll drive the old man since he's on the verge of death or
the doctor since he saved my life before.
However, for my own welfare & future, I might just drive the dream of my
life!"
d.. "It must be fate for me to meet the dream of my life. I'll drive him!"
There are no right or wrong to the above answers, only how the individual
perceives the situation. Mostly said they'll drive the old man then followed
by the doctor. Several say since the old man's dying & they might not be
able to save him by the time he reach the
hospital, they might as well drive the dream of their life and secure
their future?!!
So, what was the answer that impressed the interviewer so much?
This particular person said "I'll get down my car, pass the car key to the
doctor to drive the old man to the hospital so he might be able to save him
just like he saved me. Then I'll be able to be with the dream of my life
together in the sheltered bus stop."
With this answer, that person got the job immediately.
As human beings, we are naturally selfish. From all the other answers given,
none of them actually thought of giving up their car... ... . It is not
something wrong but at times, our thoughts are too narrow minded & we think
mainly for ourselves.
Hope you all learn from this & if your interviewers ask you similar
questions, you'll be equipped & be able to answer the questions with ease.
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Post by feimaumania on Apr 26, 2004 23:00:01 GMT 8
tul tu..kasut.. eh ko ingat tak bintang(horoskop) kwn ko....mesti ingat kan nama pun kwn... wei ape ni...tak paham la |
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Post by kuzy on Apr 27, 2004 10:35:18 GMT 8
Tips utk cinta terpendam 1. Buat mcm biasa seolah-olah takde pape perasaan kt si dia. 2. Andaikan yg si dia masih belum berpunya so taklah kamu sakit hati sgt. 3. Mendekati sesape yg rapat dn si dia. Nk cungkil rahsia ler tue! 4. Jgn sebut sgt nama si dia dpn org lain. Takut org lain tahu plak. Berckp mengenai si dia bila perlu shj. 5. Cuba kontrol gerak-geri ketika berkomunikasi dgn si dia spy tak nmpak yg kamu sebenarnya nervous. 6. Agar kehadiran kamu disedari, kamu harus sentiasa melakukan aktiviti yg seolah-olah bertembung dgnnya krn org kata dr mata trn ke hati. Kalau dh selalu bertemu pasti sedikit sebyk dia akan sedar akn kehadiran kamu. takkan tu jerk.... solution camne |
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Post by StRiDeR on Apr 27, 2004 11:34:44 GMT 8
takkan tu jerk.... solution camne kau bagi laa solution dia...aku x tau doo...kau kan lagi expert dalam hal2 nie  ... |
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Post by kuzy on Apr 27, 2004 14:34:55 GMT 8
apeplak... yang ni aku blom katam lagi... baru jek cikgu aku nak ajar, bini die dah libas die ngan cangkul...kuikuikui... ko ajarla... aku skang tgh hadapi situasi nila... ;D
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Post by StRiDeR on Apr 27, 2004 14:40:42 GMT 8
apeplak... yang ni aku blom katam lagi... baru jek cikgu aku nak ajar, bini die dah libas die ngan cangkul...kuikuikui... ko ajarla... aku skang tgh hadapi situasi nila... ;D eleh~...malu2 kucing lak dia...aku tau kau teror ...emm, maksud kau nak luah kan perasaan kat si dia ke?  ...tapi aku tgk kau nie x de masalah nyer nak ajak gurl berbual...aper masalah kau yg sebenarnya nie? ...cuba kau citer skit... |
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Post by kuzy on Apr 27, 2004 15:08:51 GMT 8
tapi kalau ko perasan aku punyer layanan kat gurl sumer same... fair.... so mane ade yang spesial.. ;D
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Post by StRiDeR on Apr 27, 2004 15:12:44 GMT 8
tapi kalau ko perasan aku punyer layanan kat gurl sumer same... fair.... so mane ade yang spesial.. ;D tul tue...aper yg kau taip tue, aku sokong... |
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