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Post by kAsuTbAtA on Feb 15, 2004 2:17:20 GMT 8
alhamdulillah...pening gak kan..tp pengalaman dulu la..aku seimbangkan kedua2nyer..ada kalanya aku pentingkan sahabat2 aku..ader kalanya kekasih aku..tp ikutkannya...mmg kekasih yg selalu di sisi aku klu aku ader masalah..
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Post by kAsuTbAtA on Feb 15, 2004 2:20:26 GMT 8
aku dah rasa betapa perinya kena tikam dr belakang dr kawan aku..ingatkan leh jadik sahabat..namun tinggal impian..aku rasa layak jadik kawan jer..aku ader sahabat,teman,rakan dan kawan..aku categorized kan mengikut pemikiran aku sendiri la..tak senang nak carik sahabat..korang setuju?mn tak leh duga..jujur mn depan kita blum tentu jujur belakang kita..aku dah byk terkena..
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Post by kAsuTbAtA on Feb 15, 2004 2:22:20 GMT 8
tp,ader sesetengah perkara kita hanya nak kongsi ngan sahabat jer kan..ader sesetengah perkara nak kongsi ngan pakwe je kan..jadik pepandai la balance kan kedua2nyer..kedua2nya mesti amat bermakna dlm hidup kita
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Post by enigma on Feb 15, 2004 21:01:29 GMT 8
alhamdulillah...pening gak kan..tp pengalaman dulu la..aku seimbangkan kedua2nyer..ada kalanya aku pentingkan sahabat2 aku..ader kalanya kekasih aku..tp ikutkannya...mmg kekasih yg selalu di sisi aku klu aku ader masalah.. ye ke? maksudnyer kekasih ler yg lh utma bg awak kan?
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Post by feimaumania on Feb 15, 2004 23:46:28 GMT 8
aku sokong ape yg kasutbata katekan...ye lah kwn pun bkn leh caye sgt...dpn lain blkang lain..aku turut simpati ape yg tlah terjd kat kasutbata....pengalaman hidup klu tak,x adventure la...aku pun penah gak...dlm diam die tikam gile2 kat aku...tp aku bls blik...mane bleh bg can...dunia akhirat aku tak halalkan sgale2nye..
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Post by enigma on Feb 16, 2004 0:03:28 GMT 8
aku sokong ape yg kasutbata katekan...ye lah kwn pun bkn leh caye sgt...dpn lain blkang lain..aku turut simpati ape yg tlah terjd kat kasutbata....pengalaman hidup klu tak,x adventure la...aku pun penah gak...dlm diam die tikam gile2 kat aku...tp aku bls blik...mane bleh bg can...dunia akhirat aku tak halalkan sgale2nye.. wau...sampai camtu skali awak bala yer...saya pon penah gak kene....tp kalo nk bls cam awak buat tu pon....rasa tak patut gak.....tp memang susah nk maafkan org camni...
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Post by atokENSEM on Feb 16, 2004 2:12:56 GMT 8
aku sokong ape yg kasutbata katekan...ye lah kwn pun bkn leh caye sgt...dpn lain blkang lain..aku turut simpati ape yg tlah terjd kat kasutbata....pengalaman hidup klu tak,x adventure la...aku pun penah gak...dlm diam die tikam gile2 kat aku...tp aku bls blik...mane bleh bg can...dunia akhirat aku tak halalkan sgale2nye.. sape sahabat feimau tu..bdk kolej ke?
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Post by StRiDeR on Feb 18, 2004 22:06:59 GMT 8
3 LiTTle wOrDS to say.... =================
There r many things that we can do to perk up and strengthen our interpersonal relationships. The following 3 words phrases can enrich every relationship.
I'LL BE THERE :
If u have ever had to call a friend in the middle of the night, to take a sick child to hospital, or when ur car has broken down some miles from home, u will know how good it feels to hear the phrase "I'll be there". Being there for another person is the greatest gift we can give. When we r truly present for other people, important things happen to them and us. We are renewed in love and friendship. We are restored emotionally and spiritually. Being there is at the very core of civility.
I RESPECT YOU :
Respect is another way of showing love. Respect conveys the feeling that another person is a true equal. If u talk to ur children as if they were adults u will strengthen the bonds and become close friends. This applies to all interpersonal relationships.
I MISS YOU :
Perhaps more marriages could be saved and strengthened if couples simply and sincerely said to each other "I miss u". This powerful affirmation tells partners they are wanted, needed, desired and loved. Consider how ecstatic u would feel, if u received an unexpected phone call from ur spouse in the middle of ur workday, just to say "I miss u".
MAYBE YOU'RE RIGHT :
This phrase is highly effective in diffusing an argument and restoring frayed emotions. The flip side to "maybe u're right" is the humility of admitting, "Maybe I'm wrong". Lets face it. When u have a heated argument with someone, all u do is cement the other person's point of view. Then, or u, will not change their stance and u run the risk of seriously damaging the relationship between u. Saying "maybe u're right" can open the door to further explore of subject, in which u may then have the opportunity to get ur view across in a more rational manner.
I LOVE YOU :
Perhaps the most important three words that u can say. Telling someone that u truly love them satisfies a person's deepest emotional needs. Ur family, ur friends and u, all need to hear those 3 little words. "I love U".
COUNT ON ME :
A friend is one who walks in when others walk out. Loyalty is an essential ingredient for true friendship; it is the emotional glue that bonds people. Those thatr rich in their relationships tend to be steady and true friends. When troubles come, a good friend is there indicating u can "count on me".
PLEASE FORGIVE ME :
Many broken relationships could be restored and healed if people would admit their mistakes and ask for forgiveness. All of us are vulnerable to faults, foibles and failures. A man should never be ashamed to own up that he has been in the wrong, which is saying, in other words, that he is wiser today than he was yesterday.
LET ME HELP :
The best of friends see a need and try to fill it. When they spot a hurt they do want they can to heal it. Without beiing asked, they pitch in and help.
I UNDERSTAND YOU :
People become closer and enjoy each other more if they feel the other person accepts and understands them. Letting ur spouse know in so many little ways that u understand them, is one of the most powerful tools for healing ur relationship. This applies to any relationship.
I THANK YOU :
Gratitude is an exquisite form of courtesy. People who enjoy the companionship of good, close friends are those who dont take daily courtesies for granted. They are quick to thank their friends for their many expressions of kindness. On the other hand, people whose circle of friends is severly constricted often do not have the attitude of gratitude.
GOD BLESS YOU :
(These are 3 words too, right?)
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Post by hangLipur on Feb 19, 2004 15:35:38 GMT 8
tak baik ckop cam 2 feimau..... kite x th ape yg akan jd nanti. manelah th satu hari nanti dia tolong ko balik??? kite tak th kan. hanya Allah sahaja yg amat mengetahui.
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Post by hangLipur on Feb 19, 2004 15:41:02 GMT 8
aku pun simpati ngan ko kasutbata. tu smua adalah pengalaman dan dugaan hidup. nasib baik ko ade org yg phm ko.... kdg2 kite rase perkara yg menyakitkan 2 adalah dugaan, tapi perkara yang mengembirakan 2 adalah dugaan yg lebih besar coz kite tak menyedari akan kehadiran nye... harap2 kite semua tak leka atas kegembiraan yg kite kecapi pd hair ini.. amacam kengkawan, skema tak ayat aku..
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Post by kAsuTbAtA on Feb 19, 2004 22:13:49 GMT 8
to infinite..aku tak kater aku pili kekasih kan..aku nak balnce kedua2 nyer.. to feimau..tak baik berdendam...cuma klu dah terasa sgt mohon la agar Allah membalasnya.. to atok..tlg bg pedoman hidp buat aku to lipur..aku suka ngan ayat ko tu.. to kekasih aku..aku dah beruntung ader ko..tp malangnya ko tak join plak forum..takper ah.tak perlu mneunjuk kan.
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Post by atokENSEM on Feb 20, 2004 0:39:20 GMT 8
to atok..tlg bg pedoman hidp buat aku . pedoman?em...nak pedoman camna lagi..atok tgk ok je kasut bata ni..takde pape masalah pun!baik?baik..cuma kasut bata ni..happy go lucky je..
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Post by atokENSEM on Feb 20, 2004 0:43:43 GMT 8
kekasih kasutbata pun join forum ye?sape ye?
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Post by enigma on Feb 20, 2004 17:50:01 GMT 8
aku pun simpati ngan ko kasutbata. tu smua adalah pengalaman dan dugaan hidup. nasib baik ko ade org yg phm ko.... kdg2 kite rase perkara yg menyakitkan 2 adalah dugaan, tapi perkara yang mengembirakan 2 adalah dugaan yg lebih besar coz kite tak menyedari akan kehadiran nye... harap2 kite semua tak leka atas kegembiraan yg kite kecapi pd hair ini.. amacam kengkawan, skema tak ayat aku.. bersabarlah yer kasutbata...
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Post by kAsuTbAtA on Feb 20, 2004 22:39:52 GMT 8
atok yg tua..kekasih hati aku tak join forum...jadik tak tau per2 la keindahan forum nie..biarlah dier ngan kerjayer dier
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